emotional atyachaar...

like every bugger on this planet i also looked forward to catch the episodes of "emotional atyachaar". even i would have a good laugh about the couples' misery. see them cry their heart out on being cheated by their only hopes in life, their loved ones, their best friends.

life comes back full swing. and hits you on the exact same spot where you had left a scar for someone else.

adversity

adversity- every heartbreak, every downfall, every failure, every loss, teaches you how to handle another of its kind, better in future. i do not understand why i fail to take the lesson.

men...

men - cannot live with them, cannot live without them..

the saying no more holds good for the fairer sex. you can live with them or without them. with the kind of liberalization our country gets to see today, it's a spectacle that we do not have to be with them to feel complete any more. who would understand you better than some one of your own sex. not that i speak for or against homo sexual relationships, but i completely understand the dire need. at the end of the day a guy needs a guy to talk his heart out, be it the emotional turmoil (on rare occasions) or the sexual fantasies and a girl needs a girl only for her g-talks, her g-spots, the depths, the lengths, the age, the wrinkles, the neighbor, the sex, the babies, the family, the husbands and the men;). someone who knows exactly where to touch and where not to. who knows exactly what will do the magic. and who better than someone who feels just the way you do. there is just no replacement...

... except for few lucky (straight) couples who are friends first and then lovers and can talk just about anything under the sun!

will i find one?

all i have known is if you do happen to find that one good friend, no matter how he looks, no matter what he does, no matter what the length - don't let him go. there is really no replacement.

why we lie...

there have been some sensible text messages doing the rounds these days. i had been trying to find the answer to the question - why we lie. my perspective was we lie when we are wrong. we lie to cover up for it. that remains the root cause. there could be other reasons on the upper layer, you don't want to hurt someone.. you don't want them to find out for whatever reasons. the one reason that i didn't think of was that probably the beholder did not deserve to know the truth! interesting isn't it? and quite true too. people at some point in life learn to lie because everyone does not deserve to know the truth!

the most desirables

what makes a thing most desirable? i realized it's the fact that you can't have it in the first place! funny. and the desire of owning or achieving the object is most often directly proportion to the level of difficulty of acquiring it.